Gay Guys dot com is probably the best literary and scholarly source of information detailing the queer psyche. While they nailed "talking to everyone except the person you like" and "being a total cunt," they left out the part where you declare them as secret bfs and post about them on the internet while never actually interacting with them evening items to wear of the sexy pattern

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